Reasonable dating expectations
Rather than trying to learn who he is and what he’s about, you look at his behavior and the things he says as a means to measure how he feels about you…and whether you’re getting closer or further away from your goal of having a relationship with him.You want to explore the possibilities with him and see what he’s all about.It starts out light and fun, it’s about connecting and enjoying each other’s company.This inevitably impacts your vibe, you become a parasite of sorts and everyone you come into contact with is simply a means to an end.
Guys don’t know exactly what it is, but suddenly their instincts are telling them to get away.
Whereas he was previously texting her throughout the day and feeling a strong desire to see her…he now has no desire to contact her whatsoever.
This can be as baffling for guys as it is for girls.
All anyone really wants is to feel OK, and most of us don’t.
When a woman worries and needs constant reassurance, it comes from a feeling of, “I am not OK” and the feeling beneath that is fear.